Must-Know Secrets To Save A Relationship

By: Brandon Martin

I’m about to share with you secrets about turning a failing relationship around with a man that most women will never know.

I've taught thousands of women around the world what to do when men pull away, shut down and become cold in a relationship… and what to do to reverse the situation and get your man deeply in love, affectionate, intimate and committed even when things seem “hopeless”.

I've coached college students, surgeons and even high-profile celebrities. What I've learn is no matter what walk of life you’re from, when you feel your relationship failing and your man stops appreciating you and he’s acts like an idiot, that’s about the time that most women give up and lose at love. A situation like that can make you feel more pain and heartbreak than you can take and feel hopeless in changing it.

You start obsessing over the question “what am I doing so wrong?”

If you’re like the thousands of women I've coached over the years to succeeding with men and relationships, you’re going through a similar situation right now.

But I have really good news for you.

After years of investigating the “secrets” relationship dynamics and meeting with experts on male psychology from around the world, I've found that in 99% of cases there is actually A LOT you can do to turn around a bad situation and get more love, affection and intimacy from your man than you thought possible and create an amazing relationship if you understand what you need to do.

It’s actually quite simple to do it just by making a few simple adjustments to the way you approach men and relationships that most women never see or completely overlook.

1. Stop Assuming He Values Your Relationship The Same Way You Do

After spending years coaching many different women, I've found one very interesting little mistake most women make with men in a relationship and they never realize they’re doing it…. and I’m willing to bet you are doing it too.

And simply by STOPING this mistake, you will see INSTANT changes in his energy towards you.

What is the mistake?

Most women carry a deep almost “automatic” underlying belief that men think about and experience relationships the same way women do.

The truth is men experience love and relationships in a very different and unique way than women.

Men get into relationships for much different reasons and have much different wants and needs.

Why is it so important to understand this?

If you don’t understand a man’s true deep needs, you’re unlikely to fulfill him and you’ll see him turn into a jerk, and even pull away completely.

2. Why Men Lose Attraction And Fall Out Of Love

If you’re inadvertently treating your man like a woman and neglecting his needs and emotions as a man, you’re bound to see him lose attraction, act distant and if left untreated even fall out of love.

You must understand what HE actually needs as a man, not what you THINK he needs.

Most women don’t understand male psychology and have never been properly shown how men really think and what they need in a relationship and this can lead to MANY problems that women face in a relationship.

Where it gets trickier is what men say they need and what men ACTUALLY RESPOND TO EMOTIONALLY are often completely different things. That’s because most men are out of touch with their emotions.

If you miss here, you’re sure to wind up with a man who is unfulfilled, losing attraction, doesn’t trust you and doesn’t respect you.

Men can be insensitive assholes… but if you don’t learn what all men universally need at their emotional core to feel satisfied by a woman (hint: it’s NOT what you need at your core), things won’t change.

3. Most Of What You've Been Taught About Men Is Wrong

What’s worse is that things like the television, romantic novels, other women, gossip magazines, soap operas, mom and dad and so-called “relationship experts” have done a fantastic job at royally confusing the hell out of most women!

Why don’t men act the way everyone says they are supposed to?!

The short answer is that the male mind is a much deeper and complex place than most people realize. Women are more confused about men and relationships than ever, and more than ever women are asking the question “what the hell do men want?”

Quite obviously, men don’t behave, think or respond to the things that most people SAY they do.

What I've found after years of searching through tons of misinformation on men is that most “advice” out there is either outdated or just plain wrong.

4. When You Have A Problem In Your Love Life You MUST Ask For Help

I've seen too many good women go for too long in obviously terrible circumstances in their love life without asking for real help.

This almost always leads to massive heartbreak and failure. They’re not getting the love, affection, connection, intimacy and romance they DESERVE and are allowing themselves to go through a very painful, dark, confusing and lonely road all alone.

Often times your love life problems go much deeper and are much bigger than you realize.