Leading, training and bringing out the best in people through motivation is my passion. Being a makeup artist, stylist and art directing on shoots are my favorite hobbies and it's also a venue where I could enhance my creativity. Sales, marketing, and events are my specialty. I enjoy learning and believes that in order to improve one's self growth is paramount. I already achieved my Masters Degree in Business Administration and my fulfillment would be to attain a PhD degree and become a successful entrepreneur while touching people's lives one individual at a time.

June 06, 2014

My Great Perhaps

Dealing with disappointment is one of the toughest situations I have to overcome. The anxiety that comes with it is too intense that it seems unbearable at the moment.

May it be rejection, failed desire or a broken dream that caused the disappointment call it what you want the effect is still a broken heart.

For a long time I've been hang up on someone I thought was good for me. I made a fantasy of him in my head to the point that I put him in a pedestal. Every guy I met and dated after him, has to have at least his qualities.

Not every person is the same but there was something with Gabe that was so mesmerizing or addicting that I just have to have it so I made him the benchmark of each guy I met.

Even if I was the one who broke up with him, it was me who still seek him for eight years. Subconsciously, I wanted to rekindle what we had back then that he is still the same person I once knew.

Before I got here, I was full of hope that once I found him my life will be beautiful again because with him regardless of the circumstances life is always sunshine and rainbows. With him I wasn't lost but home.

People change, that I'd never anticipated or I was too in denial because I was too captivated by the fantasy I made of him in my head.

Inevitably, after finding him the opposite happened. You could imagine how crushed my world was. I was more lost and more broken hearted than ever. I didn't know better.

He was my great perhaps. I went seeking for him to find my way out of my labyrinth but turns out, I am more stuck now than I was before.





Labyrinth

Who would have known how bittersweet this would taste?

You know the saying be careful what you wish for, you just might get it?... 

If I knew then what I know now then I would have wasted years hoping that I find it.

Regrets and mistakes they are memories made. Should I regret? I am still looking for the answer. 

What wrecks me is the reality that I hoped for nothing.

Hope is what made me believe that somewhere out the horizon, is something bright to look forward to.

Moving forward, I am in the long process of picking up what is left of the shattered hope and go on to conquer life one battle at a time.


One day I hope against hope that I find my way out of my labyrinth.